This Is How You Become Unattractive And You’re Not Aware of It

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Everyone strives to be a great person, kind, caring, and compassionate. But for some people, thats not always the case. There are many behaviors or bad habits that people have that make them seem unattractive, annoying, or someone that no one wants to be around with. A few of these harmful characteristics are offered for you below, and if you happen to realize that you embody any of them quit! You might find your circle of friends grow once you do.

1. You are Self-Absorbed

Many people do this without realizing it. You focus solely on yourself, talk only about yourself, and often dont care what others around you have to say. You think youre the only one who matters. If this is you, its time to change. No one wants to be a friend with someone who only cares about themselves.

2. You Focus on Outer Beauty, Ignoring Whats Inside

Surprisingly, true beauty comes from within your heart, body, and soul. Your physical appearance isnt what should matter, but people with unattractive behaviors think that outer beauty is all that matters. Take a look in the mirror deep within yourself and you might see what lies beneath. An ugly person. Unless you change your way of thinking.

3. You are Always in Competition

Are you the person who has to be better than everyone else, see more, do more? If so, youre an unattractive person. You should be more caring towards your friends, and let them have their moment. If they overcame their fear of heights and climbed 10 feet in the air, dont say, Thats all? Ive climbed 30 feet! Instead say, Wow! Thats awesome. Im really proud of you.

4. You View Your Friends as Enemies

People who are seen as unattractive are often in fights with their friends. Instead of banning together and truly being able to care for others, youre always turning your back, and stabbing them in theirs. Your friends are not your enemies. They are your allies.

5. You Question Your Importance to Others

You are definitely an unattractive person when you constantly question why others dont see you as important as you think they should. For instance, your two friends went somewhere without you it doesnt matter to them but to you it does. Get over it. Theyre still your friend, and their lives dont stop when youre not around.

6. You are the Boss

In a group of friends, everyone should be on an equal playing field. If youre the one always making the decisions, constantly needing to be in charge, or trying to control what others are doing, youre acting in an unattractive way.

7. You are Dishonest

When it comes to being a great friend, or someone who others want to be around, you need to be honest. Many people who partake in ugly behaviors are often dishonest, lying about everything, inquiring about every question asked about them, and how they truly feel about different things. Yes, honesty is the best policy.

8. You are Rude

If youre the person thats frequently impolite, offensive, or embarrassing your friends with your rude comments in public quit. Youre not someone people want to be around. There are going to be times when you dont agree with someone, or see something you didnt want to see, but theres no point in making a scene, because youre making everyone look at your terrible behavior and theyre not seeing what youre seeing.

9. You are Unreliable, Yet Dependent Upon Others

Are you there when your friends call for help? Or are you always busy when someone needs you? If youre the person no one can count on, thats an unattractive quality in friendships. Similarly, if youre the one always calling for help from others, yet never offering yours when they need it, thats another unattractive quality that no one wants in a friend.

10. You are Always Negative

Pessimism is not an attractive quality. If youre constantly putting things down, or seeing situations in a negative light, try and change your attitude. Nobody wants to be friends with someone whos constantly seeing the negative instead of the positive.

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